Saturday, December 06, 2008
A new country but an old celebration
Our Christmas will look a bit different this year. Today we are going out into the yard and making a Christmas tree out of palms. I am looking forward to the new traditions that we will be able to start here. It is a struggle for our family to keep traditions. We don't have any real concrete ones that we will be bringing from America. So we are now free to make up new ones and think of old ones to keep.
I DO need to put up some lights and some small decorations though as it DOES NOT feel like the Christmas season at all. There are stores here with a ton of Christmas decorations up and what not but it is all Santa stuff. Cannot say that I even remember seeing any manger scenes etc...but I haven't been looking too hard. I am excited to have some of our own decorations (like my manger scene) when we are able to bring a container over.
We will be starting to focus more on stories to the kids about Christ's birth. Si has been asking about heaven more lately so that has been exciting. It is fun to hear the concepts that a four year old can come up with.
I am working on getting some videos made to add to our youtube.com account. Make sure you check that out in a couple days. The next ones I will be loading with be LARGE files as they are interviews that Houghton did with a Ni-Van guy while on his Ambrym trip. You will love watching it! So hang in there while I get it ready to view and then load it (this takes forever!)
Missing you all and praying Christ will be real to you all.
Thursday, November 27, 2008
Lap Lap
Great story behind this pic...Winnie put Addy in the sling and so part of the fabric hangs down and so Gwen thought that it was me...because she is probably used to seeing the sling fabric hanging...so she was cuddling up to Winnie (as she was scared all day and wouldn't leave my side) So in this pic Gwen is looking up at Winnie realizing that it wasn't me. It was great.
I'm not sure who this kid was...but Si played all DAY... this is the only pic I have with him in it as he was gone off doing something with all the kids while we were taking all the pics.
Preparing island cabbage for the lap lap. We are sitting in the yard of this community. The whole family (and then some) live in this section of land. So you can see some houses and clothes lines in the background.
Monday, November 17, 2008
cultural blunders

I am almost daily amazed at how different our minds can work. We are all humans. Created by one God. All descendants of one man and one woman, but through thousands of years we have gone and done things differently depending on the groups we separated into. A book that I found incredibly enlightening on cultural differences just because of climate is "Foreign to Familiar" by Sara Lanier . It has been somewhat challenging to understand the magnificent people that we are seeing daily here. Our minds work totally different. I am intimidated by this in many respects simply because of the effects of these thought differences can lead to. I pray that I would be seen as genuine and humble despite by blunders.
I cannot recommend this book enough. It gets into the mind of not only our own culture, but the mind of the culture that I am now living and expected to function and prosper in. I love these people and I desire for that love to grow more and more...but I do feel that I need to also love their ways of going about life and their personalities etc. It is sometimes so foreign that I struggle to see past it. There is beauty in differences. But there is a HUGE challenge in understanding.
Check out the book and let me know what you think! If only you could be here experiencing the differences with us. ;)
Saturday, November 08, 2008
Been a while now...
Thankfully, as I blogged previously, we are all healed from the flu. Unfortunatly just after Houghton came home and then recovered from his bought with the flu, a nasty cold set in and took his voice away and also left him not feeling totally 100%. And to add to it...he accidently cut his finger badly and so he had/has to nurse it while it heals. (Sores do not heal quickly in this climate and one has to be gentle and slow while it heals or else you will be facing a much bigger problem. So he has had to take it easy because of his finger too.)
He cut it while making an arrow for Si. It is kinda funny because as soon as our friend Louis heard about it, he told Houghton..."oh the next time you want one you need to have me make it!" It goes along with "Oh, if you ever want to get a coconut out of the tree you have to have me help you get it." Its funny because "black man" (this is what Ni-Vanuatu call themselves ) dont think that "white man" should do anything that could cause harm to thier soft, white bodies. SO it is really funny that Houghton DID actually cut himself.
To add to the reason for the tardy blog post...Addy contracted Dengue Fever. Houghton was suspicious when she was running high tempts early in the week and she was crying a lot (this is NOT her normal behavior). And when a rash came, his suspistions were confirmed. She is now on the mend and is sleeping better and eating better. She had a rough go of it. I am so thankful that she is a trooper and hung in there quite well through it all.
Check out the journaling tab to read more details of these events...
I just wanted to let you all know what was up with us. I am hoping to get into more of a swing again to update the blog with pics and Houghton with the rest of his Ambrym report.
Thanks for praying and loving us.
Wednesday, November 05, 2008
"They will Poison You!"
"You will be eaten by Cannibals!" A word of warning desperately pleaded over 100 years ago to John G. Patton in
Above is the first thing i thought of when i heard, "They will poison you!" A statement made by two of my language helpers, Loui who is from Epi an island just south of Ambrym and Joe who is from Malekula an island renown for being the last hold out for Cannibalism. Interestingly Monique, Loui's wife, is from the
The words of warning may have been because just a year ago in the capital city of Port Vila, Vanuatu one Man Ambrym was rumored to have poisoned a Man Tanna. The event that occurred after was a multi day knife, Machete, brawl throughout the streets of Port Vila. At times literally 50 yrds from my front door! A number of people were maimed, and killed due to the conflict. We heard first and second hand accounts of it from Man Ambrym during our trip.
Man Ambrym are notorious for black magic and abilities to poison others. And I have to admit I came down with such an explosive case of Diarrhea while in
The Brisk is a 20 to 30 meter barge who's main function and money maker is carrying cargo throughout the northern islands. They also carry passengers to the outer islands. It is the number one mode of travel for the Ni Vanuatu. If you read my (Houghton) last post about my trip to Santo / Malekula you know that I don't fare well on the high seas. So this was definitely something that concerned my belly. We tried to catch a plane but the flights were booked for two weeks in advance. As God would have it we then decided to find another way, any way, to get there. We priced a helicopter, talked to a very "colorful" sailor from New Zeland, and we walked down the water front of Port Vila hoping to hear the local gossip in regards to the ships. To be savvy in regards to the coming and going of the ships of
As you can see below while on board you just kinda have to find a place to fit. There is next to no accommodations for passengers except for the crew. My teammate, Jim Kenner, and I slept on top of a couple of deep freezers that were loaded on the top level. Our heads were flush with the upper edge of the boat and only about 1 meter away from it. Every time a good size wave came aboard throughout the night we felt the moisture. The impact alone would at times move me at least 6 inches closer to the edge and thus to the sea. I didn't sleep very well that night:). I would love to go on more about the ship but this story must go on . To conclude in regards to the Brisk God was good. He even set it up in such a way that Loui my language helper from Epi traveled with us as far as Epi. He was on his holiday and traveling to visit his twin sons who school there. He was a huge help and blessing. Even though he wouldn’t even let us even breathe for ourselves.
When we woke up while aboard the brisk we had tea and breakfast biscuits (crackers) or "tack", of which I’ve grown very fond of. About 12 hours later and after a couple of stops on Epi and
I will end on this for now. Please check back again. I will have more in the near future. Thanks!
Monday, October 27, 2008
Blue over the flu...no longer
Seems as if we are all healed. Houghton was the last to get it...sadly while he was away on a survey trip... but seems as if he is now on the mend. Addy never did seem to catch it so we are so grateful for that.
Houghton will be coming home via plane tomorrow at lunch time and we could not be more ready! :) Well, that is not entirely true...there are a lot of things I want to get done before he comes home, but we are otherwise very ready for his arrival!
I cannot wait to hear the stories of his trip and to share them with you! So keep checking back and I hope to give you an update within the week!
Thanks again for praying for us! I ask that you would continue to pray for our health as Dengue Fever is now sweeping through Vila. Pray that we would be kept safe from this! Thanks.
Monday, October 20, 2008
Some quick turn of events
It came to be that during the week that Houghton volunteered along side a medical team sent to Malekula (the first month we were here) that Houghton made a contact from the island of Ambrym.
They were hoping to fly to Ambrym tomorrow but when they went down to book tickets, they found out that the flight was full so they took the next route...off to Ambrym by BOAT. Hought is NOT a good "sailor" so we ask that you PLEASE PRAY for him as well as Brad and Jim as they have a LONG (about 15 hour) voyage by sea ahead of them. It was a bit nerve racking as we were planning to have one more evening as a family together before he headed off...and this was not the case so it all felt a little rushed...BUT God had it all worked about and they are now on their way.
Wanted to post this so you could all be aware and begin to be praying as they are gone this next week thru Tuesday the 28th. To think that they may actually step foot in the very village that God has predestined us to live in is an INCREDIBLE thought.
The point of this survey is to simply survey...they will NOT at this point be presenting any villages with the option of us coming in. We are only info gathering at this point.
As always: please PRAY that these days would be fruitful and much would be learned. Also that they would be free from sickness (as Brad's family and our family too have just recovered from the flu). Ambrym is NOT a completely safe island. It is known as THE island most steeped in animism and spiritism. Therefore, also PRAY for their bodily safety as they wander through these trails! PRAY for the girls and kids back home too...For me I know that I need much prayer by way of sanity! ;) Seems that Houghton brings a lot of sanity to my days so to be without him this week will be difficult. Also for safety for us as a family at home here in Port Vila too. Also not a totally safe city.
Thank you all for "holding the ropes" for us and keeping us in your prayers. This ministry is AS MUCH YOURS and it is ours!!!!! Remember that! We covet your prayer and are so thankful for you partnership!
Saturday, October 11, 2008
Just some pictures to bring you up to date
Wednesday, October 08, 2008
WOW...and in walks October
Some good friends that we met here, Pete and Liz, are heading back home to Australia tomorrow. Houghton has been working with Pete and two ni-vans here on the grounds. Although Pete is leaving, Houghton will continue to work with the guys (Joe and Lewi) and be able to get even more language under his belt as there will be NO English going on and so it will be Bislama "nomo" or only Bislama.
We feel pretty confident in getting around with Bislama. Still blubbering fools in most respects of new language speakers, but able to get around well enough. More and more each day. Jesiah is learning all kinds of handshakes and little phrases that the guys (Joe and Lewi) teach him. It's great.
Enough talk...and now comes what everyone wants to see.....pictures. :) Thanks for your partnership! Couldn't be here without you there!
A centipede that the guys found while fixing the fence in our yard. They pulled out its "teeth" so it became harmless...otherwise could be deadly for children and cause serious harm to adults.
One of the centipede's "teeth" on the end of a stick...so as not to even touch it and thus get the poison on your skin.
Houghton, Laura and I singing with Lewi and Monique at a fund raiser for Lewi and Moniques Sunday School program
Thursday, October 02, 2008
Papa Gad em i gud tumas a?
Jisas, em i gud long yumi!
Saturday, September 27, 2008
some interesting twists
I do want to say that we will still try to keep you all in the loop by updating our blog and doing emails on a regular basis through an Internet cafe. These updates would just be less frequent. So if we do need to cancel it is NOT THE END of the updates! ;)
We will keep you updated as this unfolds. In the mean time...until October...KEEP IT COMING! :) And as always we LOVE getting emails and comments on our blog. Thanks to so many of you who have been involved this way.
Tuesday, September 23, 2008
Posted more videos
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Sunday, September 21, 2008
Updates! :)
Bislama: This week has been great. A successful week in another culture and another language. Houghton and I both have become comfortable as we talk with people here. It does get a bit overwhelming though as there is A LOT of the language that we cannot speak. But thankful that we can function just fine in what we have learned thus far. Praying everyday for an opportunity to LEARN more language. (For me, I hear new words and phrases constantly, but for my brain to hold on to it in such a way that I could reproduce it is different all together - thus LEARNING) Thanks for praying for us in this way. We are thrilled that we are able to learn as much as we have. God has been gracious to our ears and tongues.
Family: Si is LOVING all the playmates. He gets right in there in ALL situations. I will go hours without seeing him because he is off playing outside. Gwen is right behind him! She is a bit more cautious (which is okay in my opinion) but LOVES all the attention and being outside! Addy will soak it all up with smiles all around. Dear thing.
Here are some pic's for you to enjoy.
By the way, I am sorry we don't have much for pictures in the respect of talking with the locals here. I feel a bit awkward pulling a camera out. These people have so little and I want to fit in as much as possible and pulling out a camera makes me feel (and look) more like a tourist than a friend to those I am chatting with...so I am so sorry that we are lacking in that aspect. I hope to show you a bit as time goes on though! Still working on more videos for youtube.com (richards road vanuatu - is the key search on that website).
THANK YOU ALL for prayers and encouragements and giving!!!!! CANNOT BE HERE WITHOUT IT!
Putting flowers in the Birthday girls hair
Si loves all the gecko's and they are in plentiful amounts...so he can play endlessly...even if he accidentally kills them... he is still learning how to hold them gently
This gift was wrapped Vanuatu style. I went to the yard and (with some help) got two banana leaves and vine and flowers. I thought it was the best wrapping paper!
Houghton has been teaching literacy at "won smol bag" (kinda like an after school program minus the after school - most are unschooled) Gretch is hoping to start singing with a choir group that meets here on Wednesday.
Monday, September 08, 2008
YouTube
Go to youtube.com and search "richards road vanuatu"....there we are!!!
LOVE keeping in touch with you this way. Let us know what you think.
Monday, September 01, 2008
Houghton's trip to Santo and Malakula




On FridayI flew from the city of Port Vila, the capital city, on the island of Efate to Luganville on the island of Santo in the north. From Santo I and the team woke up early Monday morning, 4:30, and met our ship the Kiangah or "sip" in Bislama on the water front. Below is a great picture.


There wasn't much to it. She may have been 15 meters at best which made the waves that much more exciting :). I have a bad history of sea sickness and it didn't let me down. Sickness subsided for the first three hours so i was able to have great conversations or "storian" in Bislama. By hour four the wakes began to hammer the side of the boat and the side to side churning was relentless. At that time i found my old friend Mr. Horizon and the prayers began to be sent up to heaven, "God, for all that is Sacred and Holy let this cup pass from my mouth". He must have thought i needed to get used to the sickness as this is going to be the rest of my life. The nausea didn't relent. I didn't "traot" or throw up and as long as i prayed and looked at the horizon i was ok. To God's great mercy and about 100mg of antihistamines flowing threw my body on the way home i don't remember much other than the inside of my camouflage fisherman's hat and the first part of an audio sermon i hoped would lull me to sleep.
To the right is another soldier called to arms, Monique.

I spent most of my time on top of the sip with my back to a dozen or so copra bags riding out the waves and being victimized by the sun every second i was hostage to its death rays. Copra is simply the shelled out raw coconut flesh that eventually makes it into your almond joys and other delicious teats. Though the copra is a real treat the bags that it is transported with is like a giant 100 kilo bag that smells like a pair of old moldy pair of socks. I wish i was exaggerating
but due to my acute sense of touch and smell as brought on by my "sickness" i will never forget the smell. Please look at the pic below. It shows the top platform of the sip. That was my home. the copra bags are on the center of the platform.


When we got to land all of our travel was by foot or transport via Truck. Elections are going on in Vanuatu now and rumor had it that an opposing political party and its supporters had dispersed a plethora of nails along the jungle roads of its oppositional parties roads. Thus the continual blowing of tires below.


Sadly i didn't get a picture of The Ni Vanuatu, Kinzie, who helped with the project that would justify his frame and demanding presence. It was his land that the Tree was harvested from. Kinzie is about 28. He is approximately 6'4" 230lb with 1% body fat and as dark as iv'e ever seen a black man. He was not your average Ni Vanuatu. As agile and coordinated as i have ever seen any athlete he guided us into the jungle and through his coconut plantation and grazing land for his bullocks. I was privileged to do a skit with him and others later that night. It was a comical skit dramatizing the days when the Ni Vanuatu used to kill and eat missionaries. Ironically we performed for his village. As he dressed himself with the local calico, palm and banana leaves, he didn't hesitate but innately shredded and pealed the leaves and tied them accordingly to his body undoubtedly just as they had done for centuries. He obviously played the part of a Ni Vanuatu who had caught a missionary and literally carried him into the village on a bamboo pole singing out with his resonate


While in the Jungle i was able to get a few pics of the local arachnoid community!!!

The village that we stayed in had a prefered way of fishing. Yup, with a bow and arrow. Im telling you this is the stuff boys dream of. Below is a local villager demonstrating his "bow skills":) for all you Napoleon Dynamite fans out there.


This is where i slept. The kids loved the hammock. They each had their turn in it. They were alway cautious of it and were more than happy to let me sleep in it. They told me that they wouldn't be surprised to see me on the ground before the week was over b/c of it breaking on me. Praise God it stayed strong and kept me from all of the bugs, crabs, centipedes, rats, mosquitoes, etc. Once she proved herself the Ni Vans thought it was great. The big man in the village even gave it a try.

